Date: May 8th, 2008
Category: Dating, Romance & Relationships
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Love & Relationship are the things we never tired talking about it…….love always make its own place in all living lifes. Here I am trying to write few facts which i had observed and everyone feels in their life….either they are married couple or bachelor lover… all feels their love in their relationship is…lowering down over period of time…..why it’s so…is people do it intentionally?…no one knows the facts……but everyone feels it….this things is as true as death…….I am agree exception is always exsist……but here I am talking about the major part…..what is the truth behind the picture…… honestly I don’t have answer for that…..but few things which I have observed or experienced will surely share with you here…. May be these observation are true but I don’t take any guarantee for everyone….because others may have different view….as per their experience……but the main reason behind this topic is to think about….that people may not doing it intentionally but….. That’s all happen naturally and we should not get upset by thinking it other way…..
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Now lets start with the initial days when people come close to each other, they know each other and fallen in love or a relationship…..they forget the rest of the world…people try to give maximum time spend together…..may that time have to given to other things but the passion of love and the new feeling which they just started feeling…….looks more important then the other things. But as time passes… the necessity of life…open their wide mouth….and …..call us to think for your life…….and we started working to secure our future in spite of thinking that something is leaving behind….and then comparisson factor takes place and reaches to the level…..people start qustioning their own decision which they made before starting the relationship. This volcano leads relationship towards a painful life….
As we all know that the sphere of life has redefined the role of human being in relationships since the last century. Social revaluation such as women liberty, culture of individuals, needs to grow, individuality and self respect has taken place. An individual in a relationship shouldn’t be a repository of one’s own needs and desires; in fact both the people involved should be totally committed to their relationship. They must be ready to take responsibility for themselves as well as the relationship.
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Few suggestion from the experts I am putting here which may give reshape to your shattered life:
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• Don’t try too hard to convince the other person of your love. Love and trust yourself more. This will relax your love defenses and enable you to give yourself totally to relationship.
• Don’t question the other person’s love all the time.
• Feel the oneness of the universe. Step beyond the ‘me first’ conflicts that mar relationships. This would help you be complete within yourself.
• Don’t use your relationships to fulfill your expectations.
• Know yourself. Analyze the cause of your reactions.
• Acknowledge the other person as an individual. Grow and let grow.
• In a conflicting relationship, check where you went wrong rather than where the other person failed. Listen to each other. Communication strengthens the foundation of a relationship.
• Take the first step in working out a relationship without worrying about who is in the right. Don’t depend on any person and don’t let the other person depend on you.
when we’re hungry, love will keep us alive…..u hv heard this song by eagles?
November 30th, 1999 at 12:00 am
Excellent observations penned down with illustrations. Truth sometimes or most of the times, as I would say, is really hard to digest. It’s very true when ‘X’ & ‘Y’ know each other and fall in love or a relationship they forget the rest of the world.
November 30th, 1999 at 12:00 am
I agree…no relationsip is complete without arguments. But arguments are fine as long as they are healthy. The bottom line is "Compatibility Matters Bigtime’!!! Nice POst.
November 30th, 1999 at 12:00 am
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May 8th, 2008 at 5:34 pm
well it looks like history to me…..
May 8th, 2008 at 5:38 pm
very mature observations,hope u remember them wen the time comes,although there is no tried and tested rule to any relationship,u hv to work at it all the time n use the hit n miss method,n take it as u go.all the best.
May 8th, 2008 at 6:13 pm
kisi ke dil me basna bura to nahi,
kisi ko dil me rakhna khata to nahi,
gunha ho ye zamaane ki nazar me to kya
zamane wale bhi insaan hai khuda to nahi
good observation and thx 4suggestion
May 8th, 2008 at 7:59 pm
guru, i wonder at ur matured observations, it is par ur age..really good
May 8th, 2008 at 7:59 pm
hummmmm
read and i was fighting over some point and liking some..
but when got to ur suggestion i agree 90% of it..
good topic..but may be a little more opening up could help both we readers and u…
anyways
i specially like ur 1st suggestion..
when
May 8th, 2008 at 8:58 pm
sane advice.
May 8th, 2008 at 9:44 pm
Hey guru, true love persists even under extreame conditions. They are no questions , no ifs and no buts the love that fails or loose appeal are not love but just infatution. In which people are only attracted towards each other and when the realize the ac
May 9th, 2008 at 10:43 am
that is too true first of all criticize urself that will help u in every aspect not only in love but I am sure U will be the happiest person to this world, nice topic to go through it. GO TO MY POST ALSO
May 9th, 2008 at 12:19 pm
superb
May 9th, 2008 at 1:47 pm
Good thoughts .Mutual trust and respect form the bedrock to build a relationship upon. Also, keeping the Ego ( I Me Myself !) on leash helps a lot. Give and take in generous proportions is an absolute must. i particuarly liked this tip very much: "d
May 9th, 2008 at 2:12 pm
Some realty of life are really unavoidable. You have put them quite coherently. thanks for sharing.
May 9th, 2008 at 2:57 pm
The strength of the relationship is the strength of the trust on which the edfice of marital mansion is built
May 9th, 2008 at 9:07 pm
Very unique subject!..Thanks for sharing.
May 10th, 2008 at 10:23 am
The most common problem in life which is often underrated but which indirectly leads to other problems.. Sri sri Ravishankar has given a very simple solution for such problems - relationships are like desserts, to be enjoyed after ur main course (i. e. ur
May 10th, 2008 at 10:51 am
good analysis on love & relationship…but dunno how practical r they…
May 10th, 2008 at 10:54 am
love & relatonship..let them be in their own place..use them to write down thoughts..but love & relationship are 2 over rated things in this world…
there are thing like anger,revenge,happiness…and many more..why alwayz love….
May 10th, 2008 at 2:25 pm
Love & relationship…most important aspect of our life…a relationship has to be nurtured with love & care…
May 10th, 2008 at 4:08 pm
True. Its necessary to be a good listner. A good friend is always a good listener. Thus we must listen to our mates to solve the differences.
May 10th, 2008 at 8:00 pm
i agree with the essence of what u said…..its very true….
May 11th, 2008 at 7:00 am
Love & relationship in the center of our life for give us happiness and stability …
May 11th, 2008 at 1:05 pm
hello dear make ur new post….
May 11th, 2008 at 4:51 pm